Because things have been really hard for a few weeks now. It’s easy to forget how demanding a baby is. How mentally and emotionally, as well as physically, tired you get. Even before you have two more kids, you are already worn out. Every time. I hold babies, change diapers, wipe tears, clean up spills, do laundry, wash dishes, and eat a lot during the day.
I don’t wash my hair very often. Because I haven’t slept enough, my eyes are puffy and have bags under them. Most likely, food or spit is making my clothes look dirty. I always wear my hair back in a mother bun. There is no longer any makeup on me. And this picture shows everything. Even though it’s not showy, being a parent is one of the hardest jobs in the world. I’d like to think about this part of my life. This picture helped me remember because it’s easy to forget that you’ll miss something when you’re in the middle of things.
I won’t mind being restless at night as much as rocking and cuddling my babies to sleep. As their little fingers wrap around mine, I can feel their lungs breathing in and out. It will bother me more that I can calm my kids down with just a hug and a kiss on the forehead than the crying fits. More than milk spills, I’ll miss being able to clean up their messes with soap and water.
It won’t hurt my neck or back to share a bed with my kids, and I won’t miss it. However, I won’t miss seeing their smiles when I wake up in the morning. We’ll miss our morning hugs. I’d like to think about this part of my life. Even though it can be hard and stressful, I don’t want to forget this time of being a dad. Don’t forget to tell your spouse or someone else important. Tell them again that they need to take these pictures of you. “Enjoy these pictures.”
